You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
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For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him.